Around 57% of women fantasize about having sex with more than three people at a time.
Getty Images Judith Daley, 73, a retired public servant from Sydney, has chosen celibacy since she was widowed a decade ago but that doesn't mean she's shut herself off from pleasure nor from fantasy.
Maintaining sexual vibrancy throughout life is hard.
Sex researchers have wondered the same thing.
The oral question Performing oral sex can be a chore, but never in our fantasies.
Sometimes, I would fall asleep after, which is okay and should be taken as a compliment by my man, which it is.
Either way, pleasure is involved.
The urge to seemed to vanish after menopause too, at least for me.